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Showing posts with label memoir. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memoir. Show all posts

Monday, October 26, 2015

Meet Rebecca Lombardo, Author

Rebecca Lombardo is 42 years old and has been happily married for 14 years, living in Michigan. She and her husband have no kids but five rescued cats. Rebecca is bipolar, a mental health advocate, a blogger, and now a published author. Learn more about Rebecca and her memoir, It's Not Your Journey, by visiting www.RebeccaLombardo.com or the book's Amazon page. You can also keep up with Rebecca by reading her blog and following her on Facebook and Twitter.

1. What helped you find the impetus to start your blog?

I started writing my blog to help me relieve some of the pain, stress, and guilt from everything I have been through in my life up until now. I didn't even originally plan on publicizing it. I had always wanted to be a writer, but I gave up on that dream a long time ago. When I started to let people read it, I gained confidence from all of the people that were telling me how it good it was. Once I made it public, the response was overwhelming. I starting writing for me. I kept writing for me, and everyone that was learning from it.

2. Over the last two years, what's kept you motivated to continue writing and posting to your blog?

Bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, suicide--all of these issues are widely misunderstood. Once I realized I was reaching people, I knew that I needed to keep going. It was scary because a lot of people didn't know that I had this disorder, and I didn't know what they would say or do. However, the outpouring of support was amazing. It feels incredible to know that you’ve helped someone.

3. What was the process like of shifting from writing a blog to writing a book?

It was difficult. I wanted the book to read like a journal, which is why all of the chapters are dated. I wasn't sure I wanted all of these stories out there for the world to see, but since it had been my dream since childhood, I had to go forward. I can't even count the number of times I had to edit, rewrite, or eliminate chapters. Sometimes it was too overwhelming to be reliving all of these painful experiences over and over. I'm just glad I made it through.

4. How has it helped you to connect with others through your writing?

I think my other responses covered this. :)

5. What would you say to other people who are dealing with bipolar illness, depression, or other illnesses that cab make it hard for them to be able to write and create?

I would say, take it slow. Don't get down on yourself if you don't write a major best seller the first time you sit down to write. There are days when I can't write either. I don't get down on myself because I know that there will be a day when I can. I try to avoid deadlines and such. I hate setting myself up to fail. With the feeling of failure comes tremendous feelings of depression, and that's what we’re all trying to avoid. You may find that you're second guessing yourself, predicting that you won't be able to do it. If you're feeling like that I say, sit down in front of the computer or with a pad and paper and just see what happens. You may be amazed at what happens. Be nice to yourself. It's OK not to be perfect.

Thanks, Rebecca!

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Introducing Everything You've Ever Done, a Memoir

Amelia Marie Whalen has spent three years writing a memoir called Everything You've Ever Done. On her website, EverythingYouveEverDone.com, Amelia shares the book's table of contents as well as several excerpts from the book. She's in the process of seeking an agent and publisher, and her website is a great way to get an idea of her writing.

I don't want to oversimplify Amelia's 23-chapter memoir; it's hard for a summary to capture the richness of her experience. In short, the book is the story of her connection to her husband, Dave, and their process of dealing with his diagnosis with a fatal brain disease. As this excerpt of the book explains, Dave was diagnosed with Adrenoleukodystrophy (ALD), an illness which destroys the myelin in the brain. His illness was untreatable, and later chapters of the book talk about Dave's death, such as this section about hospice care and his transition into the very last part of his life.

Amelia's writing has a calm and straightforward tone to it; she conveys sadness, love, and perhaps most of all the presence of Dave. For example, ALD made it impossible for Dave to speak, but Amelia describes how she could still hear his voice: "I still couldn’t see the subtleties of Dave's decline. He was so alive. He was so alive. He was so strong and so himself. By that time, I took hearing his voice for granted. Despite his muteness, I could hear his voice."

There is a lot of literature about hospice and end-of-life care, but much of it is from a more clinical perspective. Here is a book which looks with honesty and love at the process of illness, death, and loss. I think a lot of readers will value Amelia's personal perspective on her experiences.

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Meet Tammy Thompson, Author

Tammy Thompson is 26 and lives in Pittsburgh, PA. She's a college graduate with a bachelor's in Psychology, and she will be soon be going back to earn her master's degree. Tammy has written her autobiography and made the book available to read for free online on her website, God's Great Glory.

1. How long did it take you to write your autobiography?

I started writing my autobiography when I was 15. As the years went on, I continued to write about my experiences while I was going through them. At completion, it took ten years to finish the book.

2. What inspired you to write down your personal story to share with others?

I originally never knew I was going to end up writing my autobiography. As mentioned earlier, I started writing my story at the age of 15. At that time, I was residing in a shelter for teenage girls. We were all given journals and were told to write in them every day. Lucky for me I enjoyed writing. It dawned on me one day that I could turn my journal entries into something people could learn from--something inspiring.

3. Why did you decide to share your autobiography online on your website?

I wanted anyone to be able to access my story for free online. By creating a website, I knew I could also provide other resources for those who may be in need of help.

4. Are you planning to pursue a career in the ministry--or possibly in the helping professions such as social work?

I am planning to pursue a career in counseling. I am in the process of obtaining my master's degree, and then I want to become certified in grief counseling. I want to help people in any way I can.

5. Based on your personal experiences, what do you see as some specific ways that all of us could work on advocating for children in foster care?

Based on my personal experiences, I believe the foster care system is flawed. I was taken from one bad situation and put into an even worse situation by going into foster care. I believe there needs to be better resources for first-time foster parents so they can get a grasp on what their foster children will be going through and feeling. Essentially, there needs to be more support for these families.

Thanks, Tammy!

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Meet Josh Lieberman, Blogger

Josh Lieberman is 22, an iOS app developer, and in college. He loves to write and follow passions and procrastinate. Check out his blog at http://www.tonotmissthebliss.com.

1. What inspired you to launch your site, and how did you choose the name, "tonotmissthebliss"?

It all began a few years ago when I was about 50 pounds overweight and had this big idea for a project. The project was this huge, way over my head, ambitious goal to 1) get in shape, 2) lose weight, and 3) write about it all to become a book about the process. After a lot of writing, I began to share it with friends. But it becomes cumbersome to discuss the same bit of writing in three or four different full conversations. This is where the blog idea was born--as a place to write these musings and thoughts.

I've always had a fascination with the word "bliss." Somehow, I'm quite happy that "tonotmissthebliss" still resonates with me to this day. It took me a couple years to really build the momentum and energy to consistently post. But now that I've slowly reached this point, it feels amazing.

2. How did you first get interested in writing poetry?

Hah. I would say that listening to Eminem at a young age definitely influenced my mind to enjoy hearing rhymes. In high school, my friends and I would insult each other with rhymed blocks of text. Then in my early years of college, I would write long poems for gals I never dated. Only recently have I started directing my love of poems towards myself, the universe, and overarching ideas such as love and inspiration.

3. What do you find are your favorite times to write--and what are some topics or experiences that seem to motivate you to put your thoughts/feelings into words?

The favorite time to write is when the mind has something to write about. Thank goodness for Evernote--as long as I have my phone nearby, I can record the thought for later. I would say 40% of my rhymes are from the train, 35% are written at the park, 10% at work, and the other 15% anytime, anyplace.

The biggest motivation is my love of anime. There's a certain type of show I watch where a team comes together to overcome insurmountable odds. The feelings of inspiration, teamwork, and THEY DID IT!!!! create such positive visceral reactions that resonate with me. Upon figuring out that I can craft those same emotion with my rhymes, I became addicted to it.

But my content is inspired from nearly everything I come across. Whether it's hearing about wars in the Middle East, learning about the universe during an episode of Cosmos, or listening to the late thinker Alan Watts, anything and everything is inspiration. I'm merely retelling the pre-existing story from my perspective.

4. How would you compare the creative work of developing apps with the creative process of writing?

You know, I've never yet tried to make that comparison. I'll start by how they differ. For one, I could write a poem on the train into work and shape it into a blog post to share that evening. For apps, it takes months to get somewhere tangible. They operate on completely different time-scales.

However, at the core of both you find the same elements--human emotions. It's all about the emotion you aim to invoke in the reader or the user. How can you make them feel something positive and worth feeling again?

5. When you think about your life over the next few years, what do you imagine yourself doing?

Hmmm, I don't really know a specific destination. I just know I want to grow my talents and see where they take me.

If I were to imagine the current trajectory, I would continue writing poems to the point where they eventually start linking up with music. I would love to be a songwriter one day. Or a spoken word rapper.

I see myself having at least two more personal apps on the app store. I have a super mega dream app I want to make, but there's two (or even three) that have to come before it, and each one is at least a six-month project.

So if I'm at a point where I have those under my belt and in the next few years I can start that dream project, I'll be so happy.

Thanks, Josh!

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Meet Michael A. Fabiano of Blog.Retrospective.ly

Michael A. Fabiano is the editor in chief of Blog.Retrospective.ly. The site allows people to write and share retrospectives which follow the format of "1.) What went well? 2.) What went poorly? 3.) What could I do better next time?".

1. What inspired the creation of Retrospective.ly?

We've always been very interested in people's stories, experiences, achievements, etc. We'd been thinking for a while, trying to determine a way to transform that interest and passion into something tangible that would improve people's lives--Retrospective.ly is the embodiment of our passion.

2. What is the origin of the three questions that people use to structure the retrospectives they post on your site?

They are based on agile software methodology. The retrospective is a meeting held at the end of each phase of a project-- its purpose is to look back at the work the team did and identify what went well, what went poorly, and what the team is going to do to improve in the next phase.

3. Can people include images to illustrate their retrospectives, or are the posts meant to be text only?

People are welcome to include an image, as long as it is high resolution. For posters who do not include images, we will look for a header image that fits with the content of their retrospective.

4. Are there privacy settings for the content that people post to your site, or is everything available publicly?

All content is available publicly once it is reviewed by our editorial staff.

5. What are some of the topics people have written about so far on Retrospective.ly, and what topics do you hope to see appear on the site over time?

We’ve had posts on a variety of topics: conferences, military services, athletic careers, etc. We welcome posts of any topic and are hoping to have a breadth of experiences and viewpoints on our blog.

Thanks, Michael!

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Meet Emma, Blogger, Lawyer, and Traveler

Roots and Wings is a blog written by Emma, a lawyer and world traveler who lives in Melbourne, Australia. She describes her blog as sharing her journey to try and have roots (career, family, relationships, etc) at the same time as wings (travel!).

1. How did you decide on the title "Roots and Wings" (R.A.W.) for your blog?

I was on the plane coming home from eight months in Europe, and I was feeling very frustrated and torn about coming back to Australia to pick up my career. It took a few more years, several holidays, and a job change for me to realize that my frustration was a result of my struggle to "have it all." I was trying to lay down roots and a foundation, while still having the freedom to explore and spread my wings. At first, I didn't really know what to do with this realization. I briefly contemplated an ankle tattoo of "Roots & Wings" before the light bulb idea to start a blog. I think I made the right choice!

2. What helps you to balance your career as a lawyer with finding time for travel and other pursuits?

A strong work ethic and a good relationship with my boss. Although travel is a non-negotiable part of my life, I still view it as a privilege rather than an automatic right. I work hard, establish trust, and encourage my boss to value "performance over presence." If the work gets done well and on time, there's no reason to decline my holiday request. I very rarely have enough annual leave but am more than happy to take unpaid leave--you always seem to have the money or the time for a holiday, but rarely both. So, instead of trying to earn more money (although, that's always nice), I'm focusing on scheduling the time to actually spend it--preferably in the Mediterranean!

3. When you travel, do you prefer to do a lot of planning ahead of time about what you'll do when you visit a certain place, or do you prefer to let things happen more spontaneously?

I’m much more of a planner! I actually just wrote a post about this because I think that people (wrongly) assume all travelers are aimless wanderers. The perfect holiday needs to balance both, so that there is some pre-planned structure and space for spontaneity. Read more and get a copy of my template holiday planner here.

4. What would your advice be for people who want to travel internationally but feel hesitant somehow, maybe because of the expense of maybe because of the unfamiliarity of going abroad, etc?

Just do it. It will be challenging but it will be amazing. You can overcome a lot of those issues by researching and planning--work out a budget, research the cities, look at discussion boards, and find the best hostels/hotels. If you're not keen on solo travel, join a tour group, teach English, volunteer, or find work through companies like WWOOF or WorkAway. This is a great way to meet like-minded people, save money, have support, and get a really authentic experience.

5. As you imagine your future self, what do you picture yourself doing?

I'm not exactly sure, but I'm excited! I'd love to be in a role where I'm doing something strategic and innovative but able to work with my own hours and location--my career path is looking more like a scatter diagram than a line graph but it's not going to be a "cookie cutter" life and that's the main thing (http://www.therawlife.co/the-modern-career-staircase/). I'm currently exploring opportunities for another extended working holiday in 2015--six months split between NYC and Italy is the dream. I'm loving being a blogger, too, so hopefully Roots & Wings will take me somewhere amazing.

Check out Emma's posts here.

Thanks, Emma!

Monday, July 21, 2014

Meet K.O. Giuseppe, Author

K.O. Giuseppe, author of Bonnie and Klyde + 2 Cats, is currently based in Los Angeles, California. He was born in Nigeria and raised in the United States in Queens, NY and Bridgeport, CT. According to KOG, writing is the only art form that transfers the power of imagination to anyone bold enough to read. Visit him online at his website, as well as on Twitter.

1. How did you first become interested in writing?



For a long time, I never felt interested in writing because coming from a different country, Nigeria, proper English was my biggest barrier. Plus. growing up in the inner city, reading was never the cool thing to do, so in order to fit in, I had to despise books. Silly now that I think about it, but that's how it was coming up in the inner city, in Bridgeport, Connecticut. My hatred of the literary craft led me to a stronger math comprehension and visual expression. After I graduated college, quit my good job, and took a journey to California, God guided me towards writing. Natasha and I, plus our two cats, were living in a car, with no electricity, no internet, and no home, but I had a pen and pad. I believe that that was God's way of telling me to write, and that's what I did.

2. What do you see as the pleasures--and the difficulties--of being an artist in today's world?



The pleasures of being an artist are also the difficulties of being an artist in today's world. It is pleasant to think differently from the status quo, but it is extremely difficult to be understood when you think differently. People categorize artists as crazy, simply because they see things differently. So the smart artist learns to fit in, sometimes.

3. If you had to describe your writing to someone who had never read any of your work before, what would you say?



I would say keep an open mind before reading. My books capture moments, so if I was angry at that moment a few years ago, you will feel the anger when you read it; same thing goes for happiness and sheer dumbness--yes, there is a hell of a lot of dumbness.

4. Would you tell us a bit more about your memoir, Bonnie and Klyde + 2 Cats?



Yes. Bonnie and Klyde + 2 Cats: Journey of a Starving Artist is a nonfiction book about my journey from Connecticut to California. I quit my good engineering job in Connecticut, got into my Jeep with my girlfriend plus her two cats, and spontaneously moved to California. We hit hard times, living out of the Jeep and sneaking cats in and out of motels. I would call it a fun survival guide with a DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME warning label.

5. As someone who writes both fiction and nonfiction, what do you find to be the unique challenges of each genre?

The challenge of writing nonfiction is not writer's block, but the underground demon I call procrastination. I love to experience life, then sit and write about my experiences, but that procrastination devil always has a chore for me to do: wash a car, go shopping, clean up, whatever it takes to avoid writing. The challenges of writing fiction are writer's block and realism. Writing fiction is like making Mars believable on Earth. The more outlandish the idea, the harder you have to work to make it believable to the reader.

Thanks, KOG!

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Meet Kevin Shird, Author and Cofounder of the Mario Do Right Foundation

Kevin Shird is president and co founder of The Mario Do Right Foundation along with Grammy-nominated singer, songwriter, and actor Mario. A much sought-after speaker, Kevin shares his story with lawmakers in DC and nationwide. Kevin is partnering with Baltimore-area universities and community organizations to use his story as a tool and resource for understanding the perspective of youth in similar circumstances and for planning more effective interventions to break the cycle.

Learn more by checking out Kevin's Facebook page and reading about his book on Amazon.

1. What inspired you to want to start sharing your story with others?

I thought that it was a story which needed to be shared. It's not only a story about the streets but also about the journey. How does a young kid get there, and then once he or she arrives at that place, how do they return to where they need to be? How do we pull them back in from the streets and a road to greatness?

2. In writing your book, what did you find most difficult about the process?

The editing was the toughest obstacle. Being comfortable enough to allow others to make changes to your work is very challenging, especially when it is your personal story. How can you edit your life? It can be stressful, but it's also a necessary part of the process to make your book readable.

3. In addition to helping others, do you feel that writing about your experiences has helped you, too?

Of course. Writing has been therapeutic for me. It's helped me get rid of the baggage I was dealing with. It helped me grow as a person and as a man. Writing has also helped me better understand the role I played in many of the bad situations I've encountered in my life. Reflecting and putting to words was a powerful exercise in healing and making amends, hence the title "Lessons Of Redemption".

4. Would you tell us a little bit about The Mario Do Right Foundation and how you became involved in this project?

The Do Right Foundation is a nonprofit which focuses on substance abuse prevention education. In 2007 MTV came to Baltimore specifically to film a piece on my business partner who is in the music business. The piece was highly successful and drew 4,000,000 viewers once aired, and focused on his mother's heroin addiction. MTV actually suggested that we should start a foundation to support children of addicts. My partner asked me to help build the organization, and we became partners from there. I became the co-founder, working diligently to grow an organization which could have a real impact. We wanted to support children struggling from the negative effects of their parents and addiction.

5. If you knew that a youth in crisis--or the parent of a youth in crisis--were reading this right now, what might you say?

Find them help immediately and don't waste time. Don't hesitate and don't second guess yourself. If you think something is abnormal, more often then not you are probably right. There are tons of resources online for substance abuse and mental health.

Thanks, Kevin!

Sunday, October 6, 2013

An Introduction to Halka.com

The website Halka has a new spin on social media. Rather than focusing on networking, "likes," online games, and other well-known activities, the emphasis on Halka is creating empathy among the site's users.

Halka has the feel of a wiki, with user-contributed content and links which can lead you from one story to another. People share their stories and can tag the stories with keywords related to the topic, and by clicking on the keywords, you can read a variety of autobiographical notes shared by different users. In a way, the site is like a collaborative memoir because as you click around on the site, you find connections between the experiences different people have shared.

The main idea of the site is building empathy. When you read a story someone has shared, the site prompts you to answer questions about the emotions you feel that the writer is expressing.

It will be interesting to see how Halka develops over time as it restores some of the sharing and connections with "strangers" all over the world that intrigued many of us when we first found our way to the internet years ago.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Excerpt from The Original Rude Boys' Son? by L.A. White

L.A. White was born in London, England of Jamaican parents during the time of the mass exodus from the West Indies to England that started in the 1940s and continued to the 1960s. White's father ran a sound system, which was a sort of mobile disco, and when he was growing up, his father was one of the premier sound men in the Jamaican community in London. The memoir, The Original Rude Boys' Son?, is some remembrances of White's family at the time.

The Original Rude Boys' Son? is available for download for Amazon Kindle. An excerpt from the book appears below.

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Winston Churchill died two days before my eighth birthday. We watched his funeral on the telly, my brother and I, sitting on the floor of our aunt's parlour while the bars of the electric fire burned at our side. The crowd massed in the winter streets as the gun carriage drawing his casket rolled by. The HMS Havengore took it down river to Festival Pier. On the docks each crane bowed its head in salute.

I had heard in school of a boy who pulled a sword from a stone, became a king, united a warring and disparate people and ushered in a time of abundance and prosperity. Mortally wounded, and attended by beautiful handmaidens he was taken by barge, to Avalon from whence he would one day return to unite his people once again.

Was this the fellow they were talking about? Churchill had been old when he died but our first form teacher Mrs Gottschalk said that he had been a heroic figure in his youth.

Uncle Augustus sat at the dining table behind me studying The Sporting Life. Saturday was his betting day. The racing, suspended because of the funeral, would soon commence.

"Was that the man that united the Kingdom," I asked him.

He stared at the screen over the top of his glasses. He looked at me. He leaned back in his seat, snatched the glasses off his face one handed and tossed them down on the table. "When them call wi to fight, wi come running," he said, "black man, coolie man, all a them empire fight for them."

"But yu never do any fighting, Augustus, yu never leave England," said Aunt Minnie.

"Miss Richie," Augustus tried to rise out of his seat, table and belly conspired against him, he pushed the chair back and tried again. "Miss Richie, I don't stop fight since I come a this country."

He was on his feet now, prodding a finger at the telly, then turning to prod the same finger at her. I had known them all my life and never heard him refer to his wife by anything other than her maiden name. Aunt Minnie fell for Augustus when she saw him in his army uniform, my mum said; fell like a sack of potatoes. He was a large brown skinned man who paraded around the house in the army issue khaki shorts and shirt that he had never thrown away. Standing at ease in the centre of the room he continued watching the screen.

"I was so surprised when wi come," said Aunt Minnie, "everything seem so dark, so grey, like the sun never shine. Them say the streets of London paved with gold: wi never find none though."

Aunt Minnie came first, she was the eldest: my mum's sister. Hughlet, their brother, came next. He didn't like it: he returned home to open a shop in Kingston. Then Ezra. Then my mum. My dad followed her and he brought over Biltram, his brother. Another Richie, Laurence went to America, he opened a bar in Chicago. Jeddy, the youngest never left Jamaica. He liked to drink. So he stayed in Jamaica and drank.

On screen the train bore through the countryside to Blenheim and burial, passing through stations lined with people paying their respects to the fallen hero, their breath rising above them, visible in the cold air.

I pushed George off as he leant over to get at the electric fire. We didn't have electric fires at our house. We had paraffin. Everybody hated it. It stank out the house and it stank up your clothes, it never really got very warm and you had to have an adult light it for you. Flicking a switch at Aunt Minnie's house and having the room magically heat up: that was the height of luxury. Leaving the fire burning all day, that was another level of luxury completely: only pools winners could do that, pools winners and Uncle Ezra.

Uncle Ezra had the Richie head for business. My grandfather, his father, made a lot of money in Panama in the years after the canal opened. When he returned to Jamaica he invested it in property. Ezra said he never saw his father do a day's work in his life. Ezra worked for British rail. He invested in property, too. He lived in Edgware with his wife Joan and their five kids. There might have been other black families living there then but you'd have to walk for miles to find one. George and I and our mum and dad lived in Hornsey. We had tenants in our house. Uncle Ezra had houses with tenants in them. Their family even had private and exclusive access to the public park behind their house: a hole in the fence allowed them to creep in whenever they wanted. We never went up to uncle Ezra's much; I don't remember my dad ever going there. It was a bus, a tube and another bus ride away and we never had a car. Uncle Ezra did of course, a blue/green Ford Zodiac. Whenever we went there the whole family spent the evening playing board games around the table. The two youngest were close to the ages of George and I and there were three older kids. I envied them. The six years difference between George and I mean that our games were never competitive.

The funeral was over and normal Saturday service resumed. The bookies would be open now. Augustus gathered up his betting slips and put on his trilby. When he returned he usually took a nap on the settee to wake up in time to check his pools during the results service. Then we'd eat dinner and watch whatever was on the telly that night.

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George and I went down to Aunt Minnie's most weekends. She lived in the shadow of Arsenal's Highbury football stadium. It was our home from home. Our real home was a three storey terraced house in north London. We were just an average West Indian family of Jamaican immigrant parents and two English born sons. The one thing that separated us from the herd was the very reason we went to Aunt Minnie's every weekend. Part of that reason stood in our passage way.

"What are those?" asked the postman one day. He had squashed himself up against the porch wall, parcel in hand and was looking past me into the passage.

"They're speakers," I said and let him in. He stepped past me into the hall, stopped at the first speaker box, the smaller of the two. The box was made of chipboard, stood three and a half feet tall, three feet wide, the dark brown front sloped back towards the top, a fifteen inch soundhole was cut in the centre with wire mesh fitted over it. Metal handles screwed into the side. He stepped sideways, in front of a box the size of a small wardrobe and over which I still couldn't see. It had a natural wood finish at the sides and a cream coloured front on which were painted in vertically, in five inch high, 3D lettering, either side of the sound hole:

C O U N T D E N N Y

"Who's Count Denny?" asked the postman.

"My dad."

"What's he do with these?"

"He plays dances and parties and stuff."

The postman looked down at the package in his hand: a 7 inch square cardboard packet swathed in masking tape and Jamaican stamps.

"These are records?" He said. He delivered a similar package every couple of weeks.

"Yeah."

"Where does he play?"

"Halls, clubs, house parties."

"Just to--to coloured people?"

"Anybody," I said. "But mainly, yeah."

"Now I know," he said.

The bedroom door clicked and my mum came out. The postman retreated to the front step and I went to the kitchen to finish my breakfast before going to school.

There were three big Sound Systems in north London then, a time when the dance or Shebeen or Houseparty was the main social arena for the West Indian diaspora and every other social occasion, birthday, wedding, funeral usually had a Sound System to provide the music. They were Federation, Sir Grand and Count Denny. Count Denny was the King; his domain was north London and he alone ruled. He was my dad: I was his eldest son and heir.

Thanks, L.A. White!

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Excerpt from 101 Days of Lula

William Walkerly is a prolific Canadian author based in Toronto. He has been writing screenplays for several years, with a thriller and romantic comedy represented by David Brady Productions (Canada). His latest book, 101 Days of Lula, is available for download for Kindle for just 99 cents (and free to borrow for Prime members). A detailed overview of the book appears below.

101 Days of Lula (subtitled, "text messages from my unrequited love affair with a Backpage.com Asian escort") is a unique memoir of text messages between an elderly gentleman and a young woman, whom he vainly thought he could get to fall in love with him.

Will, 64, long divorced, discovers a world of escorts and affordable sex while watching Anderson Cooper's 360. Will's sexual desires have been relegated to the basement of his consciousness for many years. Suddenly, they are awakened by the news that young escorts are in his neighborhood and readily available. It is an OMG moment for him, and he decides to check out the women on Backpage.com. He peruses the sexy photos of the gals, and settles on one:

LULA:  $160/ I am a 23 year-old college student born in Canada and of Southeast Asian descent. University girl trying to balance her predictable school life with some excitement. I have a friendly, gentle, and compassionate nature. I have dark hair, a light complexion with brown eyes. I have a petite frame at 5'1 32b 23 34 and 100 lbs. My idea of a good time is chatting with a glass of wine while playfully touching and teasing each other, building up to a full body massage and then some.

Well, the price was right, and her pictures were lovely, and so Will asked her to come to his apartment for sex. Lula turned out to be an amazing package. She was not only an eager sex partner; she also enjoyed hanging around for hours to watch dvds, talk about ghosts, palmistry, the spirituality of rocks, eat frozen dinners and cheesecake, and sometimes sleep over. It was like having a pretend girlfriend. Will couldn't have been happier. Not looking for love at the beginning, it wasn't long until he fell in love with this attractive and interesting young woman. But when he foolishly tried to get her to fall in love with him, what should have been a simple, straightforward business relationship became seriously complicated, ending with Lula declaring that she did want him to love her. It was a burden that she did not want. He should find another girl, she told him, and abruptly broke off their "arrangement."

At his age, Will knew that it would be pretty impossible to find another Lula. He'd blown a good thing. He pleaded with her to reconsider, but that only made her angry and all the more resolved to never see him again. At last, she blocked his cellphone number, and then all he had left of their relationship were memories and text messages. Like most young people, Lula did not speak to anyone on the phone. Text communication only. Grieving, Will did the only thing he knew how to do--write. And so he assembled the text messages of his failed affair, added some narrative to make his and Lula's story clearer, and managed to get a degree of closure on the events that broke his foolish, old heart.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Meet Vladimi Zjukov, Author

A 24 year-old male living in northern Europe, Vladimi Zjukov is, at the moment, living a quite stressful life trying to run a company and taking care of his family (a daughter and a wife). Sometimes he finds a minute or two to write. You can follow him on Twitter, and download the opening chapters of his book-in-progress, Tales from a Relationship, for Amazon Kindle. He is currently offering chapters 1-2 and chapter 3 as free downloads.

1. How would you categorize Tales from a Relationship: is it memoir, fiction, or some combination of genres?

I would call it a combination. Everything I have written so far has happened to me in real life, but some changes have been made for privacy reasons and in order to make it readable. I have plans to continue writing another ten to twelve chapters based on events in real life and then add a fictional ending to it.

But it all depends on how my life develops. I am hoping to give it a happy ending based on my real life.

2. Why have you decided to start with only publishing the beginning of the book, allowing reviews/reviewers to determine if you will continue or not?

I started to write the book as self-therapy. It really ripped my heart out. Going through the fights did not feel at all as bad as writing about them. When I wrote the first chapters, I had to live through it again and saw things from another perspective. I realized how destructive we were and how this may affect our daughter. It made me upset and ashamed at the same time.

I shared the work for a few selected readers online who thought I should self-publish it. I was not sure about it at all, and that's why I decided to only publish parts of it. If no one likes it or wants to read it, I don't see the point of exposing myself like this.

3. As an author do you write for yourself or with an audience in mind--or both?

Originally this was all for myself. It was therapy. But once I decided that I would publish it, I altered a few things for the readers.

4. What role does Twitter play in your life as an aspiring writer?

Twitter is a place for me to share thoughts and get to read other people's opinions. Whenever I stand at a crossroad, I just pick my phone up and tweet. Within minutes I know in what direction I should walk.

5. What are the benefits for a writer in choosing to use pen names rather than release all of one's literary output under a single name?

We can expose ourselves to a large extent. However, I could never write this book without a pen name. What if someone I knew would read it? Everyone around me could know everything about me. The pen name makes it possible for me to write this without worrying about my privacy.

Thanks, Vladimi!

Friday, November 16, 2012

Meet Walter Rossie, Jr, Author

Walter Rossie, Jr. is the author of the book, Escaping My Shadow, which is available in hard copy from Amazon and can be read for free on his website. As he describes in his book, after trouble with the law as a young man, he turned his life around. He is a professional speaker who hopes to help others find success, self-realization, and confidence.

1. Have you always been interested in writing?

I've never really been interested in writing at all, but I've always felt I had a story to tell that could possibly inspire others.

2. What was the hardest part about writing your book?

The hardest part of writing my book was having to look at things from my past that were painful. When I wrote or retold a story I would experience a full spectrum of emotions: anger, guilt, sadness, excitement, and anxiety.

3. Why did you decide to make your book available for free online?

I wanted to reach as many people as possible and hopefully inspire others. I really believe my story can serve as a lesson and motivation for anyone who is in a similar situation, addicted to drugs, in trouble with the law, or otherwise in a bad place. I know that if I can turn my life around, then anyone can.

4. How has your experience with Toastmasters helped you as a writer?

In 1999, Toastmasters played a small part in building my confidence up but didn't help me as a writer. It was actually during the time, as president of a local club, that I went to Glendale Community College to ask a professor in the Creative Writing Department if she thought someone could help me write my story. She told me, "Nobody will help you unless you are famous." I left saddened and thought that possibility didn't exist for me any longer. I struggled with trying to write since I only have a GED and didn't care for English class in school. However, in 2007, the general manager of a car dealership I worked for gave me a copy of the book, Think and Grow Rich. Because of the inspiring story of Henry Viscardi, the man born with no legs, and other stories in this book, it became crystal clear to me that I would produce a book. I then called the head of the creating writing department at California State University Northridge and talked to Dr. Haik. This time I shared my story with her and told her what I was going to do. I then asked, "Who do you have that can help me?" I was definite, which is the first principle in the book, Think and Grow Rich. She could only respond by saying, "I have a student named David Riesman. He's taken 5 of my classes and is in the Master's Program. He'll do a great job for you."

I'm creating a short talk about this experience and the importance of being definite, of being a walking and talking exclamation point rather than a wandering question mark. Once we commit and are definite, Providence moves, too! Seas part for us when we magnetize our minds and are definite!

5. What are you currently working on?

Currently, I am working on booking more speaking engagements and promoting my book, Escaping My Shadow. I'm trying to get as much coverage as possible and hope my story can reach everyone who needs a little inspiration or motivation to improve their lives.

Thanks, Walter!